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Rolando Andrade's avatar

Here is my note. My act of kindness, writing a poem about kindness

https://substack.com/profile/122092560-rolando-andrade/note/c-99395713

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Sara Redondo, MD's avatar

Beautiful and profound. True kindness is given freely, without expectation or agendaβ€”it simply exists, ready to be received whenever someone needs it. This poem captures the quiet strength of compassion in such a gentle yet powerful way.

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Wild Lion*esses Pride from Jay's avatar

Wonderful poem. Thank You. L/C/R

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Karina Baloleanu, CFNC's avatar

What a beautiful poem, Rolando!

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Britta Neinast, LCSW's avatar

What beautiful imagery. I could feel the gift of kindness through your words. Thank you for sharing that.

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Wild Lion*esses Pride from Jay's avatar

Here is my note for today.

https://substack.com/@jaygermany/note/c-99606703

Kindness Isn’t Softβ€”It’s Strong

Kindness isn’t about pleasing people. It’s not about being agreeable. It’s the quiet force that holds boundaries, stands firm in truth, and chooses presence over approval.

✨ It strengthens, not weakens.

✨ It creates space, not silence.

✨ It reshapes self-respect.

Real kindness isn’t passiveβ€”it’s power, steady and unwavering.

"Tenderness and kindness are not signs of weakness and despair, but manifestations of strength and resolution."

β€” Kahlil Gibran

A Photo of Roses in South England

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Sara Redondo, MD's avatar

This is a powerful reminder that kindness is not about passivity but about strength and integrity. The way you highlight its role in setting boundaries and fostering self-respect is especially compelling. Well said Jay!

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Anton's avatar

L/C/R

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Wild Lion*esses Pride from Jay's avatar

Thank You Anton.

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Britta Neinast, LCSW's avatar

Love this, thanks for sharing πŸ’•

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Wild Lion*esses Pride from Jay's avatar

I appreciate you, Britta. Thank you.

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Karina Baloleanu, CFNC's avatar

Beautiful words, Jay!

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Wild Lion*esses Pride from Jay's avatar

Thanks. I am glad they resonated with you. Kindness is in the action, not just the words.

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Karina Baloleanu, CFNC's avatar

I love this Challenge so much, what a wonderful idea, Sara! πŸ’› Here's my act of kindness, doing it every Friday. :)

A Friday Tradition You Might Love

Every Friday, I do something simple but meaningful: I send thoughtful messages to people. Sometimes it's checking in on an old friend, sometimes it's reaching out to someone new, or just sending a little note of appreciation. No agendaβ€”just connection.

I started this habit on a whim, but now I look forward to it every week. It’s a small reminder that gestures of kindness matter, even if they go unanswered. Because I truly believe that when you send love and kindness out into the world, it finds its way back to you. Maybe not from the same person or in the same form, but it always returns. πŸ’›

If this speaks to you, try it. Send a quick message to someone on your mind today. You never know what kind of warmth you might bring to their dayβ€”or yours.

https://substack.com/@karinabaloleanu/note/c-98665984?utm_source=notes-share-action&r=1bb3yy

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Sara Redondo, MD's avatar

Thank you Karina, glad you liked it! 😊

I love this! Such a beautiful tradition. A simple message can be a lifeline, a spark of joy, or just a quiet reminder that someone cares. The ripple effect of kindness is realβ€”what we send out has a way of coming back in the most unexpected and beautiful ways. πŸ’›

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Wild Lion*esses Pride from Jay's avatar

L/C/R Thank You Karina, a wonderful reminder.

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Britta Neinast, LCSW's avatar

Really love this challenge, thank you for offering it. Here is my note for today.

https://substack.com/@thetruthaboutanxiety/note/c-99412060?r=qttx8&utm_medium=ios&utm_source=notes-share-action

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Sara Redondo, MD's avatar

What a wonderful way to practice kindness Britta! In a lively group, being a thoughtful listener can be one of the most valuable contributions. It allows others to feel heard, seen, and appreciatedβ€”something that can be easily overlooked in big gatherings. Enjoy your time and the connections you’re deepening!

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Wild Lion*esses Pride from Jay's avatar

L/C/R and It is indeed a challenge to do that in a group that big. Enjoy your time and vacation.

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Danni Macfarland's avatar

Yes, sometimes we don't have to speak and listening is the best way to learn..

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Karina Baloleanu, CFNC's avatar

Love this, what a kind and genuine gift to give your friends - the gift of listening! Wonderful, Britta! Especially in such a large group, I’m sure it’s a challenge to share a house with so many people.

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Tim Ebl πŸ‡¨πŸ‡¦'s avatar

Here’s my note, about paying attention to my co-workers at the team meeting: https://substack.com/@timebl/note/c-99390054?r=5io3n&utm_medium=ios&utm_source=notes-share-action

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Wild Lion*esses Pride from Jay's avatar

L/C/R Tim, I thank you for being you.

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Britta Neinast, LCSW's avatar

This is great, I am sure everyone at the meeting will appreciate feeling seen and heard.

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Sara Redondo, MD's avatar

That intention is powerful Tim. A genuine smile, active listening, and making others feel seen can transform not just their day but also the team’s overall energy!

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Sara Redondo, MD's avatar

This is such a heartwarming and relatable reflection Danni! Your small act of kindnessβ€”simply offering a smileβ€”carries so much potential to brighten someone's day, even if they don’t always respond. Keep sharing your warmth, you never know whose day you might change with just a simple smile! 😊

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Karina Baloleanu, CFNC's avatar

Wonderful, Danni! One of those little things that cost us nothing but can mean everything to someone else. Plus, all the smiling will definitely improve your day as well! win-win!

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Mansi's avatar

Thank you for taking this initiative, Sara. I have been handing out little handmade tokens of gratitude and appreciation for the last seven years. Here’s an example of what those ripple effects look like: https://substack.com/@mansimakes/note/c-100596425?r=9mlzt&utm_medium=ios&utm_source=notes-share-action

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Sara Redondo, MD's avatar

Thank you for joining Mansi! What a beautiful reminder of how small gestures can create lasting impact! Emma’s reaction shows how much genuine appreciation can brighten someone’s day. The way she immediately embraced the token as her β€œflourish” is heartwarming, and Lawton’s response proves that kindness truly resonates. Your story is a testament to how little acts of gratitude can ripple through the world in meaningful ways. Keep spreading joy!

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Mansi's avatar

Thanks, Sara.

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Lesli J Krishnaiah's avatar

here is mine

-pay for a coffee for the person behind you in line at the cafe, if they get a pastry at the same time pay for that too:)

-smile at 10 people while you are out doing your errands.

-when someone lets you in during traffic smile and wave (I live in LA so I do this a lot)

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Sara Redondo, MD's avatar

Hi Lesli! Welcome! Please remember to add the link so we can support you, and support others as well! 😊

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Jeannie Ewing's avatar

This is so lovely, Sara! What a great idea. I write Notes about kindness often, almost daily. It's so good to know you are gathering people here in this space to find and support the kind acts they are doing.

I wonder if you have heard of Mansi here on Substack? She does something similar (writes Notes about kindness quite often).

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Sara Redondo, MD's avatar

Thank you Jeannie, we’re just beginning with this project, but that’s the idea 😊 Oh never heard of her!

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Anton's avatar

LIGHTHEARTED:

I reached the part of my life where I let the lord do my hair

https://substack.com/@antonvolney/note/c-100565107?utm_source=activity_item

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Alain Hajjar's avatar

Here's my latest note: https://substack.com/@riseandclarity/note/c-100831900

I am open for sharing ideas and collaborations. Don't be shy guys. Feel free to check my publication. And Sarah has always original ideas. Keep it up! We are here to support and connect.

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Sara Redondo, MD's avatar

Hi Alain! Thank you for your words. I liked your note! I missed something about kindness (I'll remember this comment as a kind note) :)

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Alain Hajjar's avatar

Thank you Sara, you deserve it anyway. Your kindness is unbeatable.

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Robert Puelz's avatar

I am tested every day when reading about money on Substack.

Relatively new to social platform interaction, I try to comment and restack without being mean spirited.

It is very difficult for me when money writers give bad advice.

Example: I can cite the scientific evidence about the futility of β€œbeating the market” by stock trading, and hear crickets. I don’t know who is listening.

I am reaching out to you.

You have an income, prospects, and expected longevity.

How can I help you with your financial questions?

I am a prof. It is one of the things I do.

Poke around Personal Finance Economics.

Join me as a paid subscriber. The cost is low. You should have skin the game.

You get me as an informed person to help.

Our money space is respectful.

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Sara Redondo, MD's avatar

I completely understand Robert. I feel the same way when I see influencers giving misleading health advice, it only adds to the confusion. I appreciate your approach to keeping the conversation respectful while trying to educate others. Your work is so important!

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Debarpan Chatterjee's avatar

I tried to look at kindness from a unique perspective.

Here is my note

https://substack.com/@debarpanchatterjee/note/c-99502210?utm_source=notes-share-action&r=58exss

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Sara Redondo, MD's avatar

This is a beautiful perspective on the intersection of science and compassion. The reminder that medicine isn’t just about chemistry but about improving lives adds a powerful human touch. I couldn't agree more. Keep going Debarpan! πŸ’ͺ

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Alain Hajjar's avatar

Hi Sara, Thanks for the support and being always creative.

Here's my latest article. I am open to collab, recommendation and share ideas.

https://substack.com/@riseandclarity/note/c-104615870?utm_source=notes-share-action&r=4tul5q

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Anton's avatar

Stop Fixing Life β€” Just Be. You Are Enough.

The world urges us to fix, change, and chase endlessly, but true life is found in simply resting in being.

β€œDon’t forget yourself because all the noise in the world is calling you away from resting in yourself.

It might seem like going for this treatment or that treatment, or reading this book and that book, is giving something to yourself, but it’s not direct. It’s not real. It’s not the highest truth. Learn to sit with yourself.

https://substack.com/profile/6362469-anton/note/c-101960231

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